Tea Time
by Deborah Brown
Tue Jul 01, 2008 at 02:50:33 PM PDT
My bonus room is a dump. Well, a dumping ground, at least. Our intent has always been to use it as a guest room/kid playroom/media room, but instead, it seems to get filled with outgrown clothing, toys from yesteryear, and the general flotsam and jetsam of 21st century suburban, family-of-four life. It has become a kind of "stuff" purgatory, where things that aren't of immediate use to us, but may still have life for another person or purpose, get placed until we get a spare moment (ha!) to decide their fate.
Of course, those moments seldom arrive, and essentially we end up with an entire room of the house devoted to storage vs. any practical or enjoyable use. And storage of things we don't even want or need anymore.
So it was with great delight that the kids and I began tackling the boxes and piles and bags today. We sorted the clothes and loaded them up-- one set ready to go to the neighbors and another set delivered to our local church charity ministry. We went through old school papers and child-art, and were ruthless in keeping only those 2 or 3 pieces that really had emotional or sentimental resonance. We gave away a half dozen board games, most played with only once or twice and one still in its original wrappings, and we organized and re-dressed and re-capitated a good 15-16 Barbies, which my daughter has not looked at for at least 2 years or longer-- the last time the Barbies held any entertainment value for her, she and a few of her friends decided it would be great fun to stip off all the Barbie clothes and try to put them on the Beanie Babies instead, and just for fun while they were at it, carefully separate each Barbie-body from the long-blonde-haired Barbie-head. It was a bit unsettling, let me tell you, to come across an entire bin of naked, headless Barbie dolls.
But at the end of the day, there are some clean spaces, both in the physical room and in my housekeeping-consciousness. There are items now in the hands of people who can enjoy them. And it's great to think that soon again I can be using that room for guests intead of guilt.
So what are you cleaning up or cleaning out? What's in your own corners and piles, both real and emotional? How's your summer going? And as always, what are you drinking, and what's for dinner? This is an open thread.


